Do you honestly know what you want or need? Because if you don’t, it’s highly unlikely you’ll get either. If you don’t know yourself very well, if you don’t ever take time to wonder and discover who you are, you won’t have the clarity to even pursue what would bring you happiness. True, there are people who will know and understand you sometimes better than you do yourself, and they are valuable companions to have. You cannot, however, rely on them to figure your life out for you. Because you are unique, you see the world slightly different than anyone else. You see it through your own particular lens. Your lens is colored by your experiences, thoughts and personality. So when it comes to what your dreams are, there will be few who can determine that for you. it’s your responsibility to discover that for yourself.