Do those around you merely accept how you are? Or do they delight in how you are? Do they love that you are sensitive and sweet, or is it just okay? Does your enthusiasm invigorate people or overwhelm them? Is your no-nonsense approach refreshing or abrasive? If you are merely tolerated, then comes a tough question to answer: Should I change, or find those who are more aligned with who I am?
Success is just outside of your comfort zone. What you want, (relationships, money, prestige etc) won't be achieved without a bit of discomfort. Sometimes that discomfort involves a total change in your approach and procedure, and other times, it involves working harder at what you're already doing. Whatever it is, your not going to attain what you want without taking those difficult steps to get there.
Guaranteed those steps will be just outside of whats comfortable for you. So if you want what you don't have, are you willing to step outside of your comfort zone and go get it?